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Robert Muller

Title: Human

Gender: Male

Age: 39

Sun Sign: Leo

Chinese Sign: Metal Dog

Location: 87508 United States

About Me:

When my daughter came into my life, I stopped ignoring a lot of things I'd put on the back burner and started asking harder questions of myself and of life. I haven't figured out anything with certainty, but I love the direction it's taken me. At the end of the day, I just want to be the best human I can be. I love the idea of showing my daughter that she can do anything she wants to do and be anything she wants to be - I want to live it and not just let it be words. 


I've lived in several places and have settled in Santa Fe, NM. I love it here, it has the quiet energy and natural beauty that I need after living in the chaotic energy and ugly beauty that is New York City for many years. I'm a misanthropic humanist, a hermit who can make people laugh at parties. I love people, in other words, but I need my time away from them, too. In addition to my wife and daughter, I live with four dogs. (Often more, we watch friends' dogs, too.) I love being around animals and exploring nature - a dream vacation for me would be a quiet cabin next to the ocean or a simple hotel in a small town next to a jungle to explore.  I can live in the Disney side of things when I need to, but I don't prefer it.

I'm naturally curious about almost everything. I've recently let go of my lifelong almost-career of music and while I figure out what's next, I'm trying out lots of things and loving the process. I'm learning to see the good and the beauty in as many other belief systems as I can; the closest I've come to finding a spiritual home is Buddhism, and I'm happily engaged in my study and happily learning more about everything else at the same time. I've recently started exploring yoga, and it compliments my life and my meditation practice amazingly well. I've started studying Reiki and will likely take a Reiki II class early 2008. I'm passionate about learning more about anything I can related to the environment, human spirituality, religions and belief systems, food, transportation, art, music, anything. I'm also a little skeptical of everything I encounter, and while that's probably healthy in the long run, it's occasionally exhausting. I try to walk the line between a healthy evaluation of new information and plain old skepticism, and sometimes I'm successful at it.

I'd love to make a living doing something more in harmony with my belief system, but I don't hate what I do. It's just that after studying music and performing around the world and doing studio work on albums and appearing on TV and everything else I did with music, it's hard to let go of the idea that the way you make a living can have some meaning to me, if not the world. (And for now I have “just a job.” I'm not complaining, just keeping my eyes open for ways to do better.)


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